The Signs Of Having An Unhappy Marriage

By Katie Cheung

Many people are looking for a long-lasting marriage. A happy marriage deserves a number of work to maintain it. Sadly, there are usually some indications of an unblissful marriage. In the following paragraphs, I am going to show you some tokens of an unhappy marriage. If you find that you have the following "symptoms" in your marriage, you should be aware of it.

If there always are disagreements or conflicts between you and your partners, it is obviously a sign of an unhappy marriage. As well as, insulting behavior and discourtesy are also the symptoms of an sorrowful marriage. Some couples may hurt their partners by saying vulgar wordings, or doing offensive behavior. Cursing each other and throwing objects are also used during the conflicts. This will be disastrous fro children when they saw the conflicts between their parents.

Lack of communication is an indication of an unblissful marriage. Sharing of thoughts and emotional feelings are vital for maintaining a good relationship. Couples happen to use excuses to stop discussing any important matters with their partners and detach from them.

Couples tend to keep secrets when there are problems in their marriage. Private phone calls and switch phones when their partners are around are signals that couples should be noticed. Sharing thoughts about future contributes to a happy marriage. An undesired marriage is that there is no communication about future hopes and plans within couples.

If you find that your partner thinks his or her friends are much more important than you, you find another sign. Furthermore, your partner may avoid being with you so he or she will find excuses. Like working late, or being with friends. A happy marriage needs time and communications. If your spouse tries to avoid being with you, you and he or she are definitely having an unhappy marriage.

When your partners don't show their love to you with actions, like hugs, kiss or compliments. Your marriage is no longer passionate anymore. Your spouse may compare you with others or extol others in front of you. Your partner may even don't want to sleep with you together. Absence of intimacy shows your relationship is lacking of emotional connection. It is undeniable that the period of honeymoon can't last forever, but you can't let your spouse becomes disinterest in you. Lack of intimacy is a sign of marital discontent.

Fornication or being unfaithful to your mate shows that your marriage is fail. Bear in mind that when trust is gone, it will not come back easily. Thus, it is difficult to rescue your love is these bad thing happen. A cheating husband or wife is also another sign of unhappy marriage. If your spouse changes the look suddenly, receiving private phone calls, spending a lot, or always stay away form home, he or she must be a disloyal one.

Many couples have unrealistic expectations of each other, as well as being dissatisfied. This will make the marriage becomes an unhappy one. There are also examples of the couples began to lose interest with each too. - 29955

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